Hotel Living...

Part of the reason I wanted to start a blog was so that I could have a way to share my thoughts on parenting and being a stay-at-home mom and wife. However, one of my great weaknesses is that I am a procrastinator. I put things off that can be completed tomorrow. In terms of this blog, it isn't pressing... so after several months here I am! Ready to share the wonders of my life- all of the moments where I want to cry but have to laugh because, well, how else would I maintain my sanity!?

In my current dynamic, my family and I are living in a hotel... that's right. In a single room with 2 beds. Which is a strain on our family, my kids, my parenting and of course my marriage! No privacy for anyone! But we are down to the last 12 days! Only 12 more days and our home will be ready. I will once again be able to cook in a kitchen, relax in a living room, sleep with my door shut (baby #3 sitll in there, but ya know :))

I never realized how much physical space could impact a situation. It is forcing us all to agree a lot... about what we watch, about games we play, places we go, etc. We often play house (a lot) and poor Anthony has been the Dad, brother and Bella's favorite "baby sister." The poor guy is longing for some down time as well! And after that conversation, Bella tells me she "NEVER gets any alone time!" Another part of being in a small space. No private conversations! Perfect example of how Bella is 4 going on 16!

But This is all very humbling. We HAVE to work together to make this work. We can't go into our own private spaces and avoid eachother which many families seem to do. Watching my oldest son struggle with needing some space but working outside of his comfort zone to make the best of a challenging situation is encouraging as a parent. He is stepping up to the plate. I feel I am being called higher as well. Being creative with dinners and activities to make this pleasant is never ending, but worth it.

As for my husband and I? We have to be creative too. Taking advantage of the hotel's "Happy Hour" for some alone time has been crucial. And encouraging eachother along the way. Work is hard for him and he has no time to rest when he is off. Reminding eachother that there is a light at the end of the tunnel and focusing on the positive that we are doing now helps. I am blessesd with an amazing supportive husband.